I'm a gal who's patiently waiting for the big 21 to arrive and basically a typical stressed-out student in Uni. Uni takes up about 50% of my life and thankfully the other half is taken up by God, my family and friends and my dearest sweetest, nicest "Teddy Bear, Clown, Entertainer and Lovable Sweetie".. Am thankful to God for everything and for the people around me... Loves sports and Life!!! CARPE DIEM!!!
hobbies
playing basketball
watching movies and tv programmes
collecting cute stuff especially star themed ones..
loves & hates
loves God!!!
loves family members (like duh!)
loves blue, brown, black, yellow, pink, light green
loves to eat and enjoy life
loves listening to music
loves dancing
loves sun-tanning
loves reading
loves sports like basketball and netball
loves shopping!!!
loves catchin' movies
loves drinkin' (lol. all sorts of beverages!!!)
loves makin' frens
loves hangin' out with frens
loves my galfrens
hates heartbreakers!! ): *humph*
hates liars and losers
hates hypocrites
hates empty promises
hates bitches who make use of ppl
hates things that make friends miserable
wishlist good health and happiness
get into NUS/NTU/SMU get chance to do Degree with Honors
graduate from University
get driving license lose weight to XX
a car (any model la!!!)
complete slamdunk series comics
go for nus union camp!!! C.A.P. 4 and above
a pair of birkenstocks a pair of levis
go on exchange to germany for dear to be happy
go on holiday with dear
have a great holiday
visit Zoo
set up a-day-with-us.blogspot.com have a great new year have a great 21st bday! new hp
set up patricialin.com
Saturday, February 19, 2005
marriage vs singlehood
would u marry someone you love or someone who loves you?
i have been thinking about this for a very long time... through secondary school, through JC.. n even now.. through the holidays.. Love is a very complex thing to me... because it is really up to the heart to decide who to love, when to love and how to love. For me, i haven't got much experience with Love and am kind of thankful for that coz i don't feel stressed by it... like some frens who are stressed by BGR, infatuations and crushes.. whereas for me.. though i tink and worry about them too, i always manage to save myself from falling too deep. Hence, I really can't see myself marrying someone i love... but maybe someone who loves me.
To marry someone I love, means to be giving more to the person and receiving less because the person may not generally love me as much as i love him. Hence, I would gradually get tired and just lose interest in the person. Besides, it's hard to give more than you receive coz it would ultimately cost a hole in the heart.. or even a broken one.
To marry someone who loves me, may seem easier... because I can be touched by the many things that he is willing to do for me.. n finally, i would probably love him as much. Or even, because of him loving me more, things are easier as he would probably listen to what I say. hahaA~ oops.. I'm so domineering already!!! haha.. just joking about him listening to me. I'll take that back. Well, as many people say, quote: "Love has to be cultivated" . I agree with that and so I believe in marrying someone who loves me more than i love him.
I know my explanations are very short and a bit.. haha~ incomplete.. But i guess we're all teens and thinking along the same frequency rite? Haha.. so it should be easy to understand what i mean. Add comments if you have any questions or arguments, okie?
*sMiLeZz*
Take care and God bless. *queen pat*
11:04 PM
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